Thanks, Darren. That means a lot, as I respect your work immensely. I will be checking out your article. I can certainly relate to your experiences in Toronto. (My brother lives there!) I actually liken situations like that to guys sending unsolicited XXX shots on the apps. Sometimes it feels really aggressive and hostile to me. Some gays may say I’m being too prudish, but I think it’s a lot sexier when guys incorporate more respect into their seduction technique. Can we please bring that sexy back?

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