Drop the judgmental assholery. Not everyone who goes with their best friend to a gay nightclub is “trolling for a homosexual encounter.” And even if he is, that does not excuse a person for using the N-word in response to rejection. Minnie Driver once told a story about how she was in a nightclub with a friend, and some random drunk guy who wouldn’t take no for an answer slugged her for rejecting him. Would you trivialize that experience by saying she was “trolling for a heterosexual encounter” so being punched by a guy was par for course?
Well, color me appalled.